Book Review: The Boy Who Loved Math

It’s finally summer!  The long and exciting school year was immediately followed by our 5 week summer school program.  So, for me, I’m 5 weeks late but I am finally enjoying some downtime with my family.

When I first became a mom I assumed I would be spending time teaching my kids the basics;  after all, I am a math teacher. When I was pregnant, I spent so much time looking for cool activities, and at-home lessons on letters, colors, numbers, because I had this expectation of myself as a Teacher-Mom.  All I can say is that I am so grateful that we have the best daycare provider that has taught my boys most of those things because I learned very quickly that I am less “Teacher” and more “Mom” with them (as it should be).

But, I definitely can’t help myself when it comes to reinforcing the math skills in my children.  My boys knew their numbers and how to count well before they could recognize colors and letters.  Our boys’ playroom is well stocked with math games, logic puzzles, building blocks, tangrams, and several number related children’s books.  

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One day I came across a book while shopping on Amazon called, The Boy Who Loved Math, the Improbable Life of Paul Erdos written by Deborah Heiligman and illustrated by LeUyen Pham.  A book about a boy who loved math? This boy mama couldn’t add it to my shopping cart fast enough.  In fact, I bought it so fast I didn’t even realize it was a book about Paul Erdos. It came in the mail 2 days later, courtesy of Amazon Prime, and it was our bedtime story that night.

I thought I was just adding to our library of children’s books.  I had no idea how much joy this book would bring!  It was published in 2013 and I wish I found it sooner! 

I love it so much and here’s why:

  1. IMG_3485.jpgIt’s a true story about Paul Erdos, a real mathematician that’s influenced and improved our lives through the math he’s done and shared with others.  I love that it brings to light the importance of collaboration. Paul Erdos spent his life traveling around the world working on math with other mathematicians because he knew this was the way to develop, “…more and better math.”
  2. It makes reference to more advanced math than I’ve seen in the math related books we have at home.  My 5 year old son is now asking me about negative numbers and prime numbers;  this makes my heart happy because this book has sparked curiosity in my son. He asked me what infinity is and I wish I had a picture of my son’s face as he tried to process the information.  What better way for a young mind to learn? It makes reference to Number Theory, Combinatorics, Set Theory, and the Probabalistic Method; we’re not just counting in this children’s book!IMG_3497.jpg
  3. It’s written in a beautiful way that makes math approachable and interesting.  I love how Heiligman describes Erdos’ curiosity about numbers and his efforts to be a problem solver.  Heiligman uses math terminology in ways a mathematician would, “Mama loves Paul to infinity” and “…all day, 100% of the time.”
  4. But hands down, my favorite part of this book are the *beautiful* illustrations.  LeUyen Pham is clearly a talented artist but what is most impressive is that there is meaningful math illustrated all throughout the book.  There’s even a thorough description of the illustrations at the end of the book.  This is the beauty of mathematics that I want my boys to see:

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    What looks like a young Erdos chasing after an arbitrary set of floating numbers is actually a list of the Harmonic Primes.

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    I love young Paul’s dreamy gaze as he thinks about even and odd numbers.

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    The dotted lines on this page are a solution to one of Erdos’ problems he posed to mathematicians:  Can a square be dissected into squares of different sizes?

I can’t appreciate this book enough–it’s so thoughtfully written, it’s light and fun for kids, and I’m loving the math written in the story lines and drawn in the illustrations.  I’ll confess, I don’t remember much about Paul Erdos in my own studies that it’s inspired me to learn more about him. This story is adorable and I’m happy to read it to my boys and inspire them to dream about numbers.

~PV~

That Student is Someone’s Baby

Of all the jobs I have ever had in my life my most favorite has been being a Boy Mama.  I am blessed to be the mom of two amazing little boys, Robert and Travis.  I never thought I would love them as much as I do because growing up I never really liked kids.  I was not that woman that swooned over a baby or begged to hold one.  In fact, when people I knew started having babies they had to practically force me to hold him/her…awkward.  And I always hated when someone would ask, “Do you want to hold him (or her)?” I really, really wanted to say, “NOPE.  I’m good, I can see the baby right here.”

Then I got pregnant.  My husband and I went to our very first ultra sound appointment on our 10th wedding anniversary and we saw our baby for the first time.  It was love at first sight.  My heart grew so big and ached so much for this sweet little baby growing in my belly.  It was a love like no other.  Overwhelming, to say the least.  I decided I loved this baby so much that I would do ANYTHING for him.

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When Little Robert was 6 months old we discovered he was going to be a big brother.  It was a busy season in our lives because my husband was preparing for his 3rd deployment with the Army to Afghanistan.  He watched his second son, Travis, be born via FaceTime.  And while it wasn’t ideal, I am so thankful that technology allowed us to share that moment together.  More on this another time…

When we found out our family would be growing…it felt really too soon.  I felt like I hadn’t had enough time with Little Robert and that with another baby on the way I would miss something.  My attention would be divided and I wouldn’t be able to love them enough.  I had just fallen so deeply in love with Little Robert…how could I ever love Baby Travis enough?

Thankfully, I have been blessed with amazing women in my life and my dear friends Deanna and Julie (former teachers of mine, turned co-workers, turned friends) told me, “Don’t worry, your heart just grows bigger.”  And boy were they right.  My heart swelled with joy and love for BOTH my sweet boys.  I decided I loved these boys so much that I would do ANYTHING for them.  These two boys are my greatest accomplishment.  They are my best work.

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Today, we took Little Robert on a tour of a preschool.  It’s time for him to go to school so my husband and I are visiting schools to see which is the best fit for our family.  As we were on our tour I asked discerning questions about curriculum, schedule, safety…but all the while I really just wanted to know if Little Robert’s teachers would take good care of him, be kind to him, discover how funny he is, see how creative he is, make him feel included and important, listen to him when he tells his imaginative stories…I just wanted to know if they would see just how special my boy is.

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Little Robert will soon be a student in a classroom and before I know it he’ll be a high school student sitting in a classroom similar to mine.  I don’t do it often enough, but sometimes I look out at my high school students and remember that they are children and they have a mom…or a dad…or a somebody…that loves them like I LOVE my boys.  My students are someone’s greatest accomplishment.

When I remember this, I try a little harder…to be more prepared, to speak a little kinder, to have a little more patience, to be more encouraging, to be more engaging, to appreciate each student for who they are…because that student is someone’s baby.

~PV~